22 Prisoners Once Removed: Children of Incarcerated Parents
Introduction
Key Terms to Know
Critical Thinking
In this chapter, we will use Brookfield’s Critical Thinking Model (2011) to answer these questions and help you become better prepared to teach these students. Brookfield’s critical thinking model involves “(a) identifying the assumptions that frame our thinking and determine our actions, (b) checking out the degree to which these assumptions are accurate and valid, (c) looking at our ideas and decisions (intellectual, organizational, and personal) from several different perspectives, and (d) on the basis of all this, taking informed actions” (Brookfield, 2011, p. 1).
Identify Your Assumptions
Check the Accuracy of Your Assumptions, Consider Different Perspectives
Statistics:
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In 2004, in the latest survey by the U.S. Department of Justice, parents in prison had nearly 1.9 million children at the time of admission to prison (Glaze & Maruschak, 2010).
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African American children (6.7%) were seven-and-a-half times more likely than white children (0.9%) to have a parent in prison. Hispanic children (2.4%) were more than two and a half times more likely than white children to have a parent in prison (Glaze & Maruschak, 2010).
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More than 4 in 10 fathers held in state or federal prisons were African American, about 3 in 10 were white, and about 2 in 10 were Hispanic. An estimated 1,559,200 children had a father in prison at midyear 2007; nearly half (46%) were children of African American fathers (Glaze & Maruschak, 2010).
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Almost half (48%) of all mothers held in the nation’s prisons at midyear 2007 were white, 28% were African America, and 17% were Hispanic. Of the estimated 147,400 children with a mother in prison, about 45% had a white mother. A smaller percentage of the children had an African American (30%) or Hispanic (19%) mother (Glaze & Maruschak, 2010).
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One in every three African American males born today will go to prison in his lifetime, as will one of every six Latino males (Mauer, 2010). These figures represent the future for a generation of children growing up today.
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African Americans are being prosecuted for drug offenses far out of proportion to the degree that they use or sell drugs. In 2005, African Americans represented 14% of current drug users, yet they constituted 33.9% of persons arrested for a drug offense and 53% of persons sentenced to prison for a drug offense (Mauer, 2010).
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More than half (53%) of the children reported by women in state or federal prisons were between 10 and 17, compared to the 47% of the children reported by men (Glaze & Maruschak, 2010).
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Approximately one-half of fathers sent to state and federal prisons were not living with their children prior to the incarceration and most of these fathers have had children by multiple partners.
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Parents who spend time in prison or jail also tend to be poorly educated, lack material resources, and frequently have problems with drugs, alcohol, and mental illness, each of which has been linked to poor child outcomes even in the absence of incarceration.
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Children of the incarcerated tend to live in high-risk environments and do not have the same menu of options that children in low-risk environments have available, such as high-quality schools, safe neighborhoods, and healthy nutrition (full-service grocery stores rather than convenience and liquor stores) and recreational opportunities.
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There is another aspect to incarceration: when state mental hospitals were closed in the 1990s, prisons became the place where the mentally ill were housed. Over 70% of the inmates in prisons and jails suffer from substance abuse and mental disorders with the prison serving as a de facto mental health facility. Because of the lack of sufficient services for them, the mentally ill often cycle into and out of the prison. Children of the incarcerated are living with abuse and mental illness in their daily lives.
Interviews
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Separation anxiety and fears of abandonment
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Fear, sadness, loneliness, low self-esteem, and emotional withdrawal from friends and family
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Use of alcohol and/or drugs
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Eating and sleeping disorders
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Anxiety, attention disorders, and developmental regression
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Physical aggression, withdrawal, acting out, academic and classroom behavior difficulties, and truancy (Children’s Justice Alliance, 2010, p.3)
Videos
Books
Taking Informed Actions
What Students Need
- To the extent possible, track down how many students in your classes have parents who are incarcerated. Do this through your school’s guidance counselor, registrar, or associate dean or vice-principal. Taking this step makes you attentive to the particular needs of all your students.
- Create opportunities for students to express their feelings and learn to cope with them. You may assign journal-writing activities after students read books, view videos, and or engage in the classroom or small group discussions and provide leading questions to guide students in unpacking their feelings. Create a secure, online journal-writing environment where students log in and logout so their journals are kept private and confidential. This way no papers or journal books are left around at home or school to be read and used in ways not intended (blackmail, teasing, bullying, or other forms of retribution by friends, enemies, or family members). This provides students with a venue to inform you about their life to increase your understanding of their life experiences. It also makes you aware of incidents that may need to be reported or followed up on. These entries should not be graded for spelling or grammar, rather the evaluation method should support the students’ efforts to think critically and self-examine.
- Communicate your respect for your students and their families. As we are doing in this chapter, examine your assumptions and attitudes in the classroom to check for discriminatory behavior or words. FCS classrooms must be an inclusive environment “where diversity in family composition and circumstance is considered and accepted” (Oslick, 2013, p. 545).
- To help all students open up to each other and to help you get to know your students, engage them in activities that foster learning and interpersonal skill-building.
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Be sensitive and aware of your students’ lives. Consider the language you use in the classroom; your students may not have a mother, father, may live in foster care, or be homeless. Their understanding of family may not include blood relatives but may be friends and social workers. “Home” may be different from what you understand it to be. Telling students to get their parent’s permission or to redesign their bedroom when they have access to neither is insensitive.
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Strive to know the nature of the relationship between your student and their incarcerated parent. Is it adversarial, fear and chaos-ridden, or close? Is it “hope springs eternal” where even though it is difficult when the parent is home with the potential for drugs, violence, and turmoil in the picture, does the student still love them and want them home? Learn this through their journal entries and the relationships you are creating with them. Be aware that students may act out in school because they are exhausted from refereeing a parent at night, from living on the streets, from being homeless, from couch-surfing from friend’s home to home. Give them space and understanding.
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Be aware of the drug and alcohol addictions and mental health issues in the families of your students. These can have a profound impact on the lives of your students.
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Provide students with a chance to learn and practice skills and keep busy with activities. Your FCS classes provide students with hands-on learning opportunities and skill-building that gives them something tangible to learn and excel at. These are important for career development and goal setting, particularly when their lives feel meaningless and adrift.
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Engage all your students in a service-learning project. In your child development class, assign the students a service-learning project in which they support the Storybook Project in a local jail or prison (see description below). Your students’ role would be to gather donated new children’s books and money and deliver them to a contact person for this Project. In this way, your students would gain knowledge and awareness of the Project and of those it impacts and apply their child development knowledge of age-appropriate reading materials and literacy support to a needy organization in your community. Be sure they also conduct research on the Storybook Project, the prison, and the incarcerated-perhaps asking the coordinator of the Storybook Project or a former inmate who participated in it while inside the prison to be a guest speaker. They should write a reflective journal about their new learnings and experiences. Finally, take time to have a celebration when these books and dollars are delivered to the contact person, taking photos or videos for the school website and inviting the local paper or TV station. There are Storybook Projects in many prisons around the nation. Contact the Volunteer Coordinator at your local prison for contact information for this organization. Be aware, however, if students in your classroom have family members who are incarcerated and are involved in the Storybook Project from inside the prison, then this may give them an opportunity to share this with others in their circle of friends. It may also be something they do not want to discuss with others. You will have to be sensitive to their feelings and not break any confidences.
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Connect students with a faith or community organization to provide meaning for them beyond their own crisis. Engaging your students in FCCLA, Future Educators of America, or ProStart will provide them with a self-guided project and leadership opportunities, both valuable to their self-esteem and emotional health.
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Create and promote support groups for youth facing this issue in your school. In addition to FCCLA, Future Educators of America, or ProStart, consider creating a club or support group for children of incarcerated parents. You might meet before school, after school, or during a planning period. The students should meet outside of school to socialize/support and take on special projects to connect them to the community.
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Identify people who can help them maintain contact with their incarcerated parents or explain to them why they cannot maintain contact. Children of the incarcerated struggle with having face-to-face contact with their parents. Cost is one factor: Almost half of the parents incarcerated in federal prisons live more than 500 miles from their last residence. Another factor is, for a variety of reasons, the caregiver may not want the child to visit their incarcerated parent. You can help your students maintain contact with their parents by encouraging them, if appropriate, to write letters or cards, send school work, make phone calls (the incarcerated can only make collect phone calls that are often very expensive), and/or send photos. Where allowed by the court, you may send incarcerated parents copies of the student’s schoolwork, report cards, and school newsletters. You will also want to give the students additional time on assignments or additional absences to allow them to visit their incarcerated parents.
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Promote discussion among your peers and staff in your school. However, be sure to maintain confidentially among your discussions. Students may not want this becoming public information in the school.
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Encourage the children of incarcerated parents in your classroom to seek out and participate in parent-child activities provided by the prisons that encourage interaction. These may include
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The Storybook Project is a volunteer organization in many prisons that encourages parent/ grandparent interaction with their children through reading, generally serving those up to age 18. The prisoners choose and read books to their children, record them, and the books and recordings are then mailed. This program strengthens both the adult’s and children’s reading skills and creates opportunities for communication through letters, phone calls, and visiting days. Parents discuss the books with their children, ask for book reports to be written and mailed to them, and discuss books they may be reading at home. This opens the door for further communication and supports literacy in both the parent and child.
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Daddy-Daughter or Daddy-Princess dances are available in some men’s prisons. Organizations facilitate these events by providing the girls with dresses, hair styling, makeup, and transportation, and hosting the event. The organizations seek permission from the prisons for the dads to dress in their “normal” clothes for this event and to allow cameras, music, decorations, food/beverages, and games to be brought in.
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A Sunday afternoon activity where parents can play and interact with their children on the prison grounds, outside the constraints of the visiting room.
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Summary
Enabled:Statistics TrackingChildren of the incarcerated are an often forgotten segment of the student population in our schools and as all children do deserve special recognition and attention to meet their particular needs. With an awareness of your assumptions about them and their parents, a detailed check of the validity of your assumptions (explicit and implicit), looking at your ideas from different perspectives, and internalizing the suggestions provided here for meeting their needs in your classroom, you can accommodate these students’ unique needs and experiences to make them welcome so they can learn and thrive in your inclusive FCS classroom.Exercises
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In a short paper, reflect on your assumptions regarding students with incarcerated parents. In your paper, use Brookfield’s Critical Thinking Model as a guide for your reflection.
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This chapter provides several video and print resources to enhance your understanding. Select several of the resources to read and view. Then, write a reflection on how the resource/s impacted your thinking. Be sure to include any of the assumptions that the resource/s helped you to rethink.
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Locate additional quality resources on this topic. Develop an annotated bibliography to share with your course colleagues and professor.
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Knowing that cooperative learning is a best practice strategy for working with this population, develop a cooperative learning lesson plan on an FCS topic of choice. For additional guidance, review the chapter, Cooperative Learning, and the chapter, Planning for Instruction.
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Create a list with contact information of school and community resources that could provide support for teachers when working with this population. Sure your list with your colleagues and professor.
References
Adalist-Estrin, A. What do children of prisoners and their caregivers need? Children of Prisoners Library, CPL 203. Retrieved July 23, 2013 from www.fcnetwork.org
Bernstein, N. (2005). All Alone In The World: Children of the Incarcerated. New York: The New Press.
Brookfield, S. D. (2011). Teaching for Critical Thinking: Tools and Techniques to Help Students Question Their Assumptions. San Francisco, California: Jossey-Bass.
Bouchet, S. (January 2008). Children and Families with Incarcerated Parents—Exploring Development in the Field and Opportunities for Growth. Baltimore, MD: Annie E. Casey Foundation.
Children’s Justice Alliance (2010). Working with children and families with parents involved in the criminal justice system: A toolkit for educators. Retrieved July 25, 2013 from http:// www.parentinginsideout.org/wp-content/ uploads/2012/09/Educational-Services-Toolkit. pdf
Glaze L. E. & Maruschak. L. M. (2010). Bureau of justice statistics special report: Parents in prison and their minor children. NCJ 222984. Washington, D.C.: U.S. Department of Justice.
Krupat, T., Gaynes, E., Lincroft, Y. (May 2011). A Call To Action: Safeguarding New York’s Children of Incarcerated Parents. New York, NY: New York Initiative for Children of Incarcerated Parents/The Osborne Association.
Mauer, M. (2010). Justice for all? Challenging racial disparities in the criminal justice system. Human Rights, 37(4). Fall.
Nicholas R. S., Bearse, M., & Burrell, T. (2009). Behavioral Health Toolkit for Providers Working with Children of the Incarcerated and their Families. Washington State Department of Social and Health Services. Retrieved July 25, 2013 from www.dshs. wa.gov/pdf/dbhr/youthtxtoolkit.pdf
Oslick, M.E. (2013). Children’s Voices: Reactions to a criminal justice issue picture book. The Reading Teacher, 66(7).
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About the Author
Dr. Betty Chamness Trost, CFCS; lecturer (retired), Family and Consumer Sciences Education and Studies, Iowa State University. Dr. Trost has taught undergraduate and graduate courses in the history of FCS, methods, curriculum development, assessment and evaluation, program development, leadership in contemporary social issues, development of the middle child, and administration of human service agencies. Her research focus is on parents who are incarcerated. She was a co-founder of the Storybook Project of Iowa. betty.trost@gmail.com-